Eighteen. Many laws deem this the age of adulthood for late teens. They’ve been driving for several years. They can vote. Some leave the nest. Others remain at home. But most end-term teenagers and early 20-somethings are somewhere in between and that poses a problem for a mom like me with several kids, ages 18 and above, when it comes to health care.
Some providers will allow me to make appointments for my adult kids, but it’s not always the case – especially if it’s a new provider. You may subscribe to the insurance and subsidize the “co” in co-pay and co-insurance, but the doctor’s office wants to speak to the “adult” who will be seen at the appointment.
Sure, I could remind my son he has a health insurance card to go forth and use, but that’s where it gets tricky. One study shows that the prefrontal cortex (the part of the brain’s ability to make decisions) isn’t fully developed until the age of 30 and beyond. Then again, neuroscientific research didn’t need to confirm that when it comes to terms like in-network or out-of-network, co-pays, etc., my son could be operating with a minimum seven-year deficit – a deficit that could affect my “co” subsidy or cause him to select the wrong type of doctor for the best treatment!
An example with my 23-year-old son (via text) goes like this:
Young adult son: i’m sick
Me: What’s wrong?
Young adult son: throat again
Me (texting faster): How bad is it? Do you have a fever? Have you taken your temperature? Can you call me? Do you think you need to see a doctor?
A minute goes by while thoughts race through my mind. I’m calculating my son’s location away from home and which doctor I should call. I try to remember if the urgent care provider is in-network and recall not being overly thrilled with the in-network practitioner we frequently use. I internally debate sacrificing the time it takes to locate physicians in his area who are taking new patients, then spending more time on the internet to cross-reference consumer ratings versus sending my son back to the familiar doctor. Whew!
The Fox and Hound ringtone jars me back to the present.
Young adult son: maybe
Me: Want me to set up an appointment with the doctor you saw last time?
Young adult son: the bad breath guy?
Me: Yes, that one.
Another minute goes by.
If you have texting kids, you know how this progresses. You select the doctor and schedule the appointment only for your child to forget about a conflict – something much more important than seeing the doctor, although they’re reluctant to say why. By the end of the process, you’re one step away from a professional concierge certificate or in need of medical attention yourself.
When I discovered the Benefits Value Advisor* or BVA service offered with many Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Montana (BCBSMT) plans, I knew that I had found a best friend forever (BFF) – seriously! BVA is a one-call solution to help members navigate the health care system and does the following and more! Check out this video to see what else it can do!
The way I see it, some subjects like math, physics and health care insurance terminology are better introduced by others. While I don’t want to be totally hands-off, when it comes to minor illnesses I dream about a scenario that goes like this:
Me: I’m sorry to hear that. What’s wrong?
Me: Sounds like you need to see a doctor. Call the customer service number on the back of your insurance card and ask to speak with a Benefits Value Advisor or BVA.
Young adult son: then what?
Me: The BVA will help you decide on the best type of doctor to see and schedule an appointment for you.
Young adult son: that’s it?
Me: That’s it, except call me afterwards and let me know what the doctor said.
Thirty seconds lapse.
Young adult son: what about the payment?
The dream ends. Reality returns.
For now, I may be the “co” in co-pay and co-insurance, but our BVA (my BFF) will save me some serious time and unnecessary out-of-pocket money. More importantly, the BVA will help my young adult son experience a life lesson on how excellent health care insurance works with BCBSMT.
If you have questions, we can help! Call us at 855-604-1515.
*About Benefits Value AdvisorBenefits Value Advisor (BVA) is a consumer advocacy program that guides members through the universe of health care, prompting them to examine and weigh every aspect of their health care decisions. It is a one-call solution, providing members with access to specially trained advisors who can assist them. Presently, BVA is available to more than one million large group plan members in Illinois, Montana, New Mexico, Oklahoma and Montana with plans to expand in 2015. Not sure if you have BVA or not? Call the Customer Service number on the back of your member ID card to find out more.
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